They Broke Up Because Tono Misunderstood
Tono and Tangmo are the talk of the town once again. A week ago, Tangmo was invited to the "Club Friday Show," where she explained to everyone about what really caused the two of them to be separated.
Tangmo: There was a time when I have admitted to Tono that I wasn't being loyal to him. But that didn't mean that I was cheating on him. The real case was that I was not loyal; I had a secret. I started to see some horrible flaws of his, and have decided to seek advice from many elders. These elders, I cannot expose to anyone included Tono. That was my secret. Therefore, I didn't let him check my phone which I would said was the cause of our break up. I thought it was a small issue that any family could overcome.
He wanted one thing from me, and that was to not cheat on him. He demanded that I let him see my phone, and if not, he will leave the house immediately. I said "no."
Host: Is the secret about who you talked with or what you talked about?
Tangmo: Both. I chose to talk with people that was very close to him. But some of the conversations I have had with them I would not be able to accept if I was Tono. He would probably question why I seek advice from this person, why not talk within ourselves, and why did I talk about that with him/her. If I was him, I would feel the same way about myself. I talked about his flaws which I couldn't show him since it was with the person he respected. I would rather let him misunderstand me than having to despise that person. I let him misunderstood that I am cheating on him.
During his birthday, I thought I would give him a gift that he wanted. I told him that I wasn't loyal; that I was talking with someone. I explained that I couldn't expose who that person was, because I was the one that started the whole thing. But the truth was I made it up. I said what he wanted to hear from me. He thought that I was talking to my ex. Thinking that he might forgive me if I told him what he wanted to hear, so I lied.
But after he moved out, he never contacted me. I called him asking if he remembered our vows. He replied, "You know it well, it was all your fault. What do you want me to do?" He was my everything; my whole life. Because of that, I attempted suicide and tried cutting my own arm.
Host: What do you want to say to Tono now?
Tangmo: Thank you. Although there were both good and terrible things happened, the love that I have is still the same. If it wasn't for all those things that had happened, I would not have become who I am today. Therefore, all the things that I made you feel bad or did you wrong, I am sorry, no matter how many times I have to say, I will. I hope that this Valentine's Day, you will have a great day with your family and fans. I also sent you a small love from here, it's something I still have for you, and believed that you still do too. I miss you. In the future, whether we will get to see each other again or not, I hope the past was a great thing that had happened to us and the love that we had built. But today, I will not beg you to come back, when this show goes on-air, you and I might already have new people in our life.
SOURCE: Club Friday Show